MILF — Instructor Manual

Prenatal & Postnatal Sculpt Program

MILF

Mama + Infant Lift & Form

The complete instructor reference for teaching prenatal and postnatal sculpt — class format, 360° breathing, the 5 alignment zones, baby-holding protocols, and stage-specific modifications for every client at every stage.

45 min
Full body flow format. Five blocks plus warm-up and restore.
All stages
1st trimester through late postnatal — modifications noted throughout.
0 props
No props required. Optional add-ons for extra challenge.
360°
Breathing integrated into every movement, every block, every class.

Chapter 01 — Foundation

Philosophy, Safety
& 360° Breathing

MILF — Mama + Infant Lift & Form is a prenatal and postnatal sculpt program built on one belief: the strongest thing a woman can do is train her body for the life she is actually living.

This is not a program about getting a body back. It is about building a body that is capable, resilient, and pain-free for one of the most physically demanding seasons of life. Every exercise, every cue, every breath has been chosen with that purpose in mind.

The class serves all stages — first trimester through late postpartum — with the same format, the same exercises, and the same breath foundation. Modifications are not a lesser version. They are the intelligent version.

Instructor principle

The most powerful thing you can say in class is not a correction — it is "your body has done something extraordinary." Build trust before you build intensity. Permission cues change everything.

⚠ Non-negotiable pre-class screening

Prenatal clients must have OB or midwife clearance before joining. No exceptions.

Postnatal clients require medical clearance — typically 6 weeks after vaginal birth, 12 weeks after C-section. Always defer to their provider.

All clients should complete a PAR-Q or equivalent health screening on intake.

Stop Signal What It May Indicate Instructor Action
Doming or coning at midlineDiastasis recti under loadRegress to breathing only. Refer for DR assessment.
Leaking or pelvic pressurePelvic floor overloadReduce load, reduce range, refer to pelvic physio.
Pelvic girdle painSIJ or pubic symphysis strainStop bilateral loading, modify to supported movements.
Dizziness or breathlessnessBlood pressure, overexertionSeat client, rest, do not continue if symptoms persist.
Abdominal or pelvic painMultiple possible causesStop class immediately. Refer to medical provider.

360° breathing is not a warm-up. It is the system that makes every other movement in this class safe and effective. The breath connects the diaphragm, pelvic floor, deep abdominals, and multifidus into a coordinated pressure management system.

Never teach: "Pull your belly button to your spine." This cue is outdated and counterproductive. Always use breath-driven engagement.

  1. Position: Seated tall or standing. Hands wrapped around the lower ribcage, fingers forward, thumbs at the back.

  2. Inhale: Breathe into the back, sides, and front of the ribcage equally — 360° like an umbrella opening. The pelvic floor gently descends and releases.

  3. Exhale: Ribs gently knit together. Pelvic floor lifts and recoils. Deep core wraps in without any gripping or forcing. This is a response to breath, not a command to brace.

  4. Practice: 5 complete breaths before every block. Return to this breath at any moment the client feels lost or fatigued.

  5. Class mantra: "Exhale to effort. Let the breath lead the movement." Say this at least once per block.

Stage notes

Prenatal 3rd tri: Cue lateral and back body expansion. "Breathe into your back ribs" — the belly takes up front space.

Postnatal all stages: The exhale-to-pelvic floor connection is often disrupted after birth. Take extra time here. This reconnection is the most important thing you can teach.


Chapter 02 — Alignment

Teaching the
Changing Body

Alignment in pregnancy and postpartum is not about correcting imperfect bodies. These are bodies undergoing profound, hormonally-driven structural change. Your role is to help clients move well within those changes — not fight them — and prevent the compensations that lead to pain and injury.

Relaxin loosens joints and ligaments throughout pregnancy and the postpartum period. Muscular stability matters more, not less. Every alignment cue you give is building the support system that protects increasingly mobile joints.

01
Feet & Ankles
Tripod foot · active arches · equal weight

What changes: Relaxin causes arches to drop and feet to pronate. Foot size can permanently increase. Swelling is common in 3rd trimester.

Teach tripod foot: Weight evenly across big toe mound, little toe mound, and heel. Active arches without gripping the toes.

  • Feel all four corners of your feet — big toe, little toe, inner heel, outer heel
  • Gently lift your arches without scrunching your toes
  • Can you feel equal weight in both feet? Shift until you can
02
Knees & Hips
Soft knees · neutral tracking · level pelvis · hip hinge

What changes: Increased joint laxity + anterior gravity shift causes passive knee hyperextension and hip drop. Pelvic girdle instability is common. Watch carefully for knee valgus increasing as the belly grows and glute medius weakens.

  • Soften your knees — just a gentle micro-bend, never locked
  • Imagine headlights on your kneecaps — keep them shining forward over your second toe
  • Hip bones level — like a shelf holding a glass of water, don't spill it
  • Hinge from your hip crease — send your hips back like closing a car door with your bottom
03
Pelvis & Lumbar Spine
Neutral pelvis — the single most important skill in this program

What changes: The growing uterus creates anterior pelvic tilt and lumbar compression. Postnatally, protective posterior tilt is common. After C-section, scar tissue can pull the pelvis forward.

Teach neutral pelvis step by step: Tip all the way forward (anterior) — feel the lower back arch. Tip all the way back (posterior) — feel the lower back flatten. Find the midpoint. That is home.

Critical

Never ask clients to flatten their lower back. Neutral is always the goal — not posterior tilt. Approach C-section clients with extra care.

  • Not arching, not tucking — right in the middle. That's neutral.
  • Imagine a bowl of water on your pelvis — keep it level, don't spill
  • Soften your tailbone down without tucking it under
04
Ribcage, Thoracic Spine & Core
Rib connection · thoracic extension · breath-driven core

What changes: The uterus pushes the ribcage upward creating rib flare. Thoracic spine rounds forward. Deep core muscles are progressively stretched and disrupted by birth.

  • On your exhale, feel your lower ribs gently knit together — not forced, just a natural closing
  • Lift through the centre of your chest without letting your ribs pop open
  • Think of your core as a gentle hug from the inside — not a brace, just a wrap
  • Exhale first, then move — let the breath switch on the core for you
05
Shoulders, Neck & Head
Ears over shoulders · blades down · chest open

What changes: Pregnancy and new parenthood create a perfect storm for upper body dysfunction. Feeding, carrying, babywearing, and looking down at a newborn cement forward-head and rounded-shoulder posture.

Permission cue — say this out loud

"Your posture looks like this because you are caring for a tiny human around the clock. That is not a failure — it is a reality. We are here to help."

  • Bring your ears back over your shoulders — make length through the back of your neck
  • Let your shoulder blades slide gently down your back, away from your ears
  • Broaden across your collarbones — open the front of your chest
  • Imagine a string lifting the crown of your head toward the ceiling
What You SeeWhat It MeansWhat To Cue
Lower back arching in squatAnterior pelvic tilt, weak coreNeutral pelvis, reduce depth
Knees caving inwardWeak glutes, hip instabilityKnee tracking, widen stance
Ribs flaring on overhead reachThoracic tightness, weak deep coreRib connection, reduce range
Chin jutting forwardWeak deep neck flexors, fatigueEar over shoulder, reduce load
Breath holding on effortLoad too heavy, poor core strategyExhale to effort, reduce intensity
Hip hiking on single legWeak gluteus mediusLevel pelvis, reduce range
Rounding on hingeTight hamstrings, poor hip patternHip crease initiation, soft knees
Doming at midlineDiastasis recti under loadStop immediately — breathing only

Chapter 03 — Class Format

The 45-Minute
Flow

Layering method

Always teach Layer 1 for 4–6 reps before adding the next layer. Cue each addition verbally so clients can follow without stopping. On the second or third round, push tempo and intensity. Clients who cannot layer stay at Layer 1 — that is always complete.

WU
Warm-Up
Alignment + Mobility
5 min

360° breathing primer before any movement begins. Teach neutral pelvis here.

MovementStanding roll-down, one vertebra at a time × 4
MovementPelvic tilts — find neutral pelvis, anterior vs posterior × 8
MovementHip circles, long through the spine × 6 each way
MovementLateral side reach — lengthen through the waist × 6 each side
MovementShoulder rolls + chin tucks — counteract feeding posture × 8
MovementGlute hinge + standing hamstring curl × 8
PrenatalWiden stance as belly grows. Chair for balance.
PostnatalMove slowly. Notice without judgment today.
BabyBaby in carrier or on mat — make eye contact throughout.
01
Block 1 — Lower Body
Glutes · Quads · Hamstrings · Pelvic Floor
8 min

Inhale to lower, exhale to rise. Pelvic floor lifts on every ascent — every rep.

Layer 1Bodyweight squat × 10 — feet hip-width, chest tall, neutral spine
+ AddPause halfway, check alignment × 8
+ AddExhale + pelvic floor lift at the top × 8
ComboSquat → lateral leg lift at top → return × 8 each side
ComboReverse lunge → knee drive on exhale × 10 each side
FinisherSumo squat hold × 20 sec — 360° breath in hold, pelvic floor responsive not gripped
Pre 1st/2ndFull range as comfortable. Widen stance as belly grows.
Pre 3rd triShorter range, wider stance. Skip knee drive. Chair if needed.
Post 0–12wkShallow squat only. No knee drive. Focus on breath connection.
Post 12wk+Full range when pelvic floor is symptom-free.
BabyCradle or forward hold during squats. Hip hold in sumo. Switch sides each set.
02
Block 2 — Upper Body
Shoulders · Back · Arms · Posture Correction
7 min

Exhale on the effort. Ribcage soft — no flaring on any overhead reach.

Layer 1Standing chest opener — hands behind back, squeeze shoulder blades × 10
+ AddHold at top, 3 breaths into the front of the chest
ComboBent-over row (flat back) → squeeze + hold × 2 → release × 12
ComboScarecrow → goal post press → extend to T × 10
ComboAlternating overhead reach + lateral lean × 8 each side
FinisherIsometric chest press — hands pressed together, exhale + PF lift × 5 sec × 8
PrenatalAll standing. No overhead if shoulder discomfort present.
PostnatalPrioritise rows + openers. Critical for feeding posture correction.
BabyOverhead press with baby (head control required). Bicep curls with cradle hold — eye contact at top.
03
Block 3 — Full Body Integration
Peak Effort · Combos · Breathing Under Load
8 min

Every rep is breath-led. If they can't breathe, the load is too heavy. Regress — never push through.

Layer 1Hinge → row → stand tall × 10
+ AddChin tuck + shoulder blade squeeze + exhale at the top × 10
ComboLateral squat → stand → pull arms wide to T × 8 each side
ComboHinge → row × 2 → stand → overhead reach → lower with control × 10
FinisherStanding hold in slight squat — 5 full 360° breaths, check full alignment head to toe
Pre 3rd triHinge + row only. Skip lateral squat. Breathing over reps.
Post 0–12wkHinge + row only. Light effort. Focus is breath + posture awareness.
Post 12wk+Progress combos. Watch for DR symptoms throughout.
BabyHinge + row with two-hand chest hold. Overhead reach with forward-facing hold.
04
Block 4 — Core Reconnection
Deep Core · Pelvic Floor · Breath
8 min
Instructor note

This is NOT a traditional ab block. Never introduce crunches or sit-up variations in this class. If you see doming at the midline — stop immediately, regress to breathing only.

Inhale to prepare, exhale to move. Every single time without exception.

Layer 1Standing pelvic floor engagement — exhale + lift + hold × 5 sec × 8
+ AddHeel raise on the exhale × 8
ComboStanding dead bug — opposite arm + leg reach, exhale on reach × 10 each side
Combo ★Supine dead bug — tabletop, exhale to extend, no back arching × 10 (Post 12wk+ / Pre 1st tri only)
ComboBird dog standing — hinge slightly, opposite arm + leg, exhale on extension × 10 each side
FinisherWall sit — 5 deep 360° breaths, core responds to exhale without gripping
Pre 1st/2ndSupine dead bug fine to ~16–20wks. Watch for coning.
Pre 3rd triStanding core work ONLY. No supine.
Post 0–12wkStanding PF work + standing dead bug only. Nothing else.
Post 12wk+Introduce supine dead bug slowly. No DR symptoms first.
BabyBaby on mat — reach toward baby on standing dead bug arm. Baby on lap during wall sit.
05
Block 5 — Glutes + Hips
Glutes · Hip Abductors · Pelvic Stability
5 min

Exhale on the lift. Pelvis stays level throughout — not a single hip hike.

Layer 1Standing glute kickback — hinge slightly, kick back with control × 15 each side
+ AddHold at top × 2 sec, exhale + PF lift × 15
ComboSide-lying or standing hip abduction — lift, hold, lower with control × 12 each side
ComboStanding clamshell — knee out, foot down, pelvis level × 15 each side
FinisherSingle leg balance — soft knee, 3 full 360° breaths each side
PrenatalSide-lying fine all trimesters. Skip if pelvic girdle pain present.
Post earlyGentle standing glute work only. Side-lying with support.
BabyHip hold on kickback — trains exact one-hip carry pattern. Side-lying next to baby during tummy time.
CD
Cool Down + Restore
Nervous System Reset · Full Body Release
6 min
StretchStanding forward fold — soft knees, head heavy, 4 breaths
StretchCat-cow on all fours — sync with breath, spine moves freely × 8
StretchChild's pose knees wide — breathe into the back body, 5 full 360° breaths
StretchSide-lying hip flexor stretch — bottom leg long, top knee bent, 3 breaths each side
ClosingSeated cross-legged — 5 closing 360° breaths. Pelvic floor fully releases on inhale, gently lifts on exhale.
Cue"You showed up for yourself and your baby today. You are stronger than you know."
Pre 3rd triWide knee child's pose with pillow. Chair cat-cow if floor uncomfortable.
PostnatalAdd doorway pec stretch. Remind clients rest is training too.
BabyBaby in carrier, on chest, or on mat beside — babies often settle here.

Chapter 04 — Baby Holding

Functional Strength
with Your Baby

⚠ Never pressure a client to use their baby as a prop

It must always be the client's choice, made when they feel completely stable. A fussy, unsettled, or unwell baby is always a signal to set baby down — no exceptions, no pushing through.

  • Baby's head and neck fully supported at all times
  • Client feels completely stable and balanced before adding baby
  • Baby has appropriate head control for the chosen movement
  • Client is not fatigued — always set baby down before form breaks
  • Baby is happy and settled — fussiness means pause
  • All movements are smooth and controlled — no sudden or jerky motions
  • When in doubt, set baby down. The workout works either way.
BlockHold StyleExerciseNotes
Block 1Cradle (newborn–4mo)Squat — baby across chestBaby loves the up-down motion
Block 1Forward facing (3mo+)Squat + lateral leg liftBaby faces out, supported at chest + thighs
Block 1Hip hold (5mo+)Sumo squat holdSwitch sides each set to balance load
Block 2Two-hand chest holdOverhead press × 8 — slow, controlledHead control required. Babies love this.
Block 2Cradle holdBicep curl × 10 each armEye contact at top — favourite move
Block 2Chest hold facing youBaby chest press × 10Both hands on torso at all times
Block 3Two-hand at chestHinge + row — baby travels with youDirectly mimics picking baby up from floor
Block 3Forward facingOverhead reach at top of standHead control required
Block 4Baby on matStanding dead bug — reach toward babyBeautiful connecting moment
Block 4Baby on lapWall sit — baby on thighs during breathingGrounding for both parent and baby
Block 5Hip hold (5mo+)Glute kickback — baby on opposite hipTrains exact one-hip carry pattern
Block 5Cradle or chest holdSingle leg balance while holding babyReal-life functional challenge
Block 5Baby on matSide-lying hip abduction face-to-faceSupervise tummy time hands-free

Chapter 05 — Props

Optional Props

The no-prop version is always the foundation and is always complete. Props add intensity for clients who are ready — they never replace the movement. No client should ever feel they need a prop to participate fully.

BlockOptional PropHow It Layers In
Block 1Resistance BandAround thighs for squat + lunge — adds glute activation demand
Block 22lb Wrist WeightsLight resistance to all rows, raises, and press variations
Block 3SlidersUnder feet for lateral lunge — increases stability demand significantly
Block 4Pilates BallBetween knees for standing core work — adds inner thigh + pelvic floor cue
Block 5Pilates RingBetween thighs for kickback + abduction — adds adductor load